What Actually Happens When You Stop Disappearing in Love

Last week I wrote about why so many women lose themselves in love, and how the over giving that started as a way to avoid abandonment slowly becomes the engulfment that makes us want to run. ...more

Soul Worthy Love

July 10, 20263 min read

What Actually Happens When You Stop Disappearing in Love

Why You Lose Yourself in Love (And Why It Has Nothing to Do With Loving Too Much)

There's a pattern I've seen in thousands of women that almost nobody names honestly. A woman, usually warm, generous, deeply feeling, slowly disappears inside her relationship. She stops doing the thi... ...more

Soul Worthy Love

July 04, 20263 min read

Why You Lose Yourself in Love (And Why It Has Nothing to Do With Loving Too Much)

The One Illusion At The Root Of Every Love Struggle

After 35 years and 126,000 sessions, I can tell you with complete confidence: at the core of every love struggle is one illusion. Not a fact. An illusion: The illusion that you are unworthy of love... ...more

Soul Worthy Love

June 26, 20262 min read

The One Illusion At The Root Of Every Love Struggle

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