What Actually Happens When You Stop Disappearing in Love

What Actually Happens When You Stop Disappearing in Love

What Actually Happens When You Stop Disappearing in LoveDr. Lise Janelle
Published on: 10/07/2026

Last week I wrote about why so many women lose themselves in love, and how the over giving that started as a way to avoid abandonment slowly becomes the engulfment that makes us want to run.

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Why You Lose Yourself in Love (And Why It Has Nothing to Do With Loving Too Much)

Why You Lose Yourself in Love (And Why It Has Nothing to Do With Loving Too Much)

Why You Lose Yourself in Love (And Why It Has Nothing to Do With Loving Too Much)Dr. Lise Janelle
Published on: 04/07/2026

There's a pattern I've seen in thousands of women that almost nobody names honestly. A woman, usually warm, generous, deeply feeling, slowly disappears inside her relationship. She stops doing the things she loves. Stops saying what she actually...

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The One Illusion At The Root Of Every Love Struggle

The One Illusion At The Root Of Every Love Struggle

The One Illusion At The Root Of Every Love StruggleDr. Lise Janelle
Published on: 26/06/2026

After 35 years and 126,000 sessions, I can tell you with complete confidence: at the core of every love struggle is one illusion. Not a fact. An illusion: The illusion that you are unworthy of love...

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That Feeling You Call Love? It Might Be Something Else Entirely

That Feeling You Call Love? It Might Be Something Else Entirely

That Feeling You Call Love? It Might Be Something Else EntirelyDr. Lise Janelle
Published on: 20/06/2026

The feeling most people call love isn't love. The intensity. The obsession. The butterflies. The physical contraction in your chest when they don't text back. The way you can't eat. Can't focus. Can't think about anything else.

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