What Actually Happens When You Stop Disappearing in Love
Last week I wrote about why so many women lose themselves in love, and how the over giving that started as a way to avoid abandonment slowly becomes the engulfment that makes us want to run.

Last week I wrote about why so many women lose themselves in love, and how the over giving that started as a way to avoid abandonment slowly becomes the engulfment that makes us want to run.

There's a pattern I've seen in thousands of women that almost nobody names honestly. A woman, usually warm, generous, deeply feeling, slowly disappears inside her relationship. She stops doing the things she loves. Stops saying what she actually...

After 35 years and 126,000 sessions, I can tell you with complete confidence: at the core of every love struggle is one illusion. Not a fact. An illusion: The illusion that you are unworthy of love...

The feeling most people call love isn't love. The intensity. The obsession. The butterflies. The physical contraction in your chest when they don't text back. The way you can't eat. Can't focus. Can't think about anything else.